Question: What values determine a friendship –
a good friendship? Companionship? Loyalty? Someone who is there to listen or
give advice? There are numerous ways to describe friendship but what about a close
one, a best friend - the rarest of all kinds of relationships? I suppose we all
have our measuring techniques for that but, for me, when someone does something
for you, to support you because they know it will make you happy and without
wanting anything in return, that type of friend I hold in the highest regard.
I delved back into a foreign film this week with My Best Friend. It was a French film
that was released in 2006. Luckily the more foreign films I see the easier it
is to stay in tune with the story even though I have to read. Remember I am a
slow reader. If I skipped this film just
because of the subtitles, like used to in the past, I would have missed out on
a wonderful story.
It’s rare to see closeness among males in film – at least
ones that aren’t about getting drunk, finding a girlfriend or over coming some
stupid mistake and their “buddies” have to help them out of it. I know men may
have the cliché that they are tough and don’t need to talk about their feelings
or about their relationships; but we all have friendships that matter and those
stories should be told. Men do have very meaningful friendships. And that is
what I found in My Best Friend.
If you are concerned this is an overly sappy film, don't be. It is not. After reading
what I wrote initially I want to ensure I didn’t turn anyone off with my introduction and thinking it might be a drama. My Best Friend is quite funny and will
keep you smiling throughout.
Francois, played by Daniel Auteuil, is a man totally
obsessed with his work so much so that he neglects the people in his life and
isn’t always the most honest businessman. He is also self-centered and quick
with a response without a filter. He is oblivious to his shortcomings until his
business partner challenges, at a dinner party, to introduce his best friend
within a short period of time. Challenge accepted and from that point on I was slightly
reminded of “A Christmas Carol”. No, there aren’t any ghosts who come dragging
chains in the middle of the night, but the main character has a mirror, so to
speak, put in front of his face to see how he really is to people and why he is
alone.
The humor of the film happens when he meets a taxi driver
and their connection evolves. That’s it. No more details. Just rent it. I found
this on Netflix but had to order the DVD as it wasn’t on the Instant Play.
My favorite thing: Well, I did like Francois' occupation, an antiques-dealer. I used to work for an antiques-dealer back in the day.
My least favorite thing: That I don't know more French words. When I watch a Spanish film I can catch a lot of words that I understand to help me keep up better.
Directed by Patrice Leconte, Fidelite Productions, IFC Films, 2006
Written by Patrice Leconte, Jerome Tonnerre, (story by Oliver Dazat)
Starring: Daniel Auteuil, Dany Boon, Julie Gayet.
Genre: Comedy
Rating: PG-13
Length: 90 minutes
Review: 8 out of 10
* Photo courtesy of IFC Films.
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